Add explicit asynchronous submit/poll offload API

[byrnedj]

This adds a public dto.h with an explicit submit/poll API so applications can overlap DSA data movement with their own CPU work:

dto_submit_memcpy / dto_submit_memset / dto_submit_memcpy_crc /
dto_submit_crc -> dto_async_poll -> dto_async_crc_val
dto_batch_op_new / dto_submit_batch_copy / dto_batch_poll (up to 64 copies)

The operation state is caller-allocated (opaque dto_async_op) so it can be polled from any thread. Every submit takes a flags argument: DTO_SUBMIT_CC directs output toward the CPU cache when the device supports it, and DTO_SUBMIT_BOF makes the device block on page faults instead of aborting (requires a work queue configured with block-on-fault). Without BOF a faulting operation surfaces as DTO_ASYNC_FAILED and the caller redoes it on the CPU; submission returns DTO_ASYNC_FALLBACK when DSA is unavailable or the request is out of range, with nothing copied. CRC results follow the raw CRC32C convention (seed 0, no final inversion), matching _mm_crc32.

The memset entry point takes (dest, c, n) like the C library, replacing the earlier page-oriented helper so the offload API is uniform across operations.

Adds seven functional tests (copy, memset, crc, copy+crc, no-BOF fault contract, argument validation, batch) that pass both on DSA hardware and on the CPU-fallback path.

Example use:

#include <dto.h>

  dto_async_op op;                      /* plain stack variable, 192 B */

  int rc = dto_submit_memcpy_crc(&op, dst, src, n,
                                 DTO_SUBMIT_CC | DTO_SUBMIT_BOF);
  if (rc == DTO_ASYNC_SUBMITTED) {
          do_work();          /* overlap with the DSA */

          while ((rc = dto_async_poll(&op)) == DTO_ASYNC_PENDING)
                  _mm_pause();          /* or yield, or check later */

          if (rc == DTO_ASYNC_DONE) {
                  uint32_t crc = dto_async_crc_val(&op);
          } else {                      /* DTO_ASYNC_FAILED */
                  memcpy(dst, src, n);
                  uint32_t crc = my_sw_crc32c(src, n);
          }
  } else {                              /* DTO_ASYNC_FALLBACK: nothing copied */
          memcpy(dst, src, n);
          uint32_t crc = my_sw_crc32c(src, n);
  }